Comments on: South African man marries four women at once http://tackyweddings.com/2009/10/15/south-african-man-marries-four-women-at-once/ Thu, 09 Sep 2010 18:20:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: marjana http://tackyweddings.com/2009/10/15/south-african-man-marries-four-women-at-once/#comment-3017 marjana Sat, 27 Mar 2010 21:31:02 +0000 http://tackyweddings.com/?p=1307#comment-3017 Hello! Could anybody send me some contact from this man? I'would like to write abouth his life. Thanks for helping. marjana.grcman@gmail.com Hello!

Could anybody send me some contact from this man? I’would like to write abouth his life. Thanks for helping.

marjana.grcman@gmail.com

]]> By: Thick Madame http://tackyweddings.com/2009/10/15/south-african-man-marries-four-women-at-once/#comment-2882 Thick Madame Sun, 07 Mar 2010 08:24:07 +0000 http://tackyweddings.com/?p=1307#comment-2882 I agree with you Fatima. It is a cultural thing, we don't have to like it but who are we to judge? There are more important things going on in this world than whether or not it's disgusting or acceptable that this man or men like him have two or more wives. Personally I am for monogomous relationships, but tearing up this fellow and others like him doesn't change the fact that it has happened and will continue to happen. Ask yourselves: is this going to matter in ten years? When you are swamped with bills, kids, mortgages, struggling to make ends meet...will you REALLY be lying awake at night scorning this man and his right to have four wives? Doubtful, remove the needle from you eye FIRST before you start critiquing other's and their customs. How low and degrating people have become today, that they feel the need to judge someone without first understanding all the facts. In America we demand equality and justice, then why not emulate that and show the world that as Americans we can be accepting and equal. You don't have to like it or agree with it, but it isn't your life. These people use think highly of us, and now they can only laugh and mock us. Try living in another country, you won't be the same after a year. You'l then see Americans for what they really are, crude,crass,loud,obnoxious heathens who haven't the faintest idea. It is what is...move on! I agree with you Fatima. It is a cultural thing, we don’t have to like it but who are we to judge? There are more important things going on in this world than whether or not it’s disgusting or acceptable that this man or men like him have two or more wives. Personally I am for monogomous relationships, but tearing up this fellow and others like him doesn’t change the fact that it has happened and will continue to happen. Ask yourselves: is this going to matter in ten years? When you are swamped with bills, kids, mortgages, struggling to make ends meet…will you REALLY be lying awake at night scorning this man and his right to have four wives? Doubtful, remove the needle from you eye FIRST before you start critiquing other’s and their customs. How low and degrating people have become today, that they feel the need to judge someone without first understanding all the facts. In America we demand equality and justice, then why not emulate that and show the world that as Americans we can be accepting and equal. You don’t have to like it or agree with it, but it isn’t your life. These people use think highly of us, and now they can only laugh and mock us. Try living in another country, you won’t be the same after a year. You’l then see Americans for what they really are, crude,crass,loud,obnoxious heathens who haven’t the faintest idea. It is what is…move on!

]]> By: gringation http://tackyweddings.com/2009/10/15/south-african-man-marries-four-women-at-once/#comment-2579 gringation Fri, 29 Jan 2010 16:00:21 +0000 http://tackyweddings.com/?p=1307#comment-2579 Not a choice I would personally make, but hey, at least they have stability if the guy has money, so I won't judge! Still... he could of at least had a separate wedding for each. Or at least two double weddings. Shame. Not a choice I would personally make, but hey, at least they have stability if the guy has money, so I won’t judge!

Still… he could of at least had a separate wedding for each. Or at least two double weddings. Shame.

]]> By: Sarai http://tackyweddings.com/2009/10/15/south-african-man-marries-four-women-at-once/#comment-2532 Sarai Fri, 22 Jan 2010 04:38:36 +0000 http://tackyweddings.com/?p=1307#comment-2532 You are a HIDEOUS sexist pig. Nuff said. You are a HIDEOUS sexist pig. Nuff said.

]]> By: chucky http://tackyweddings.com/2009/10/15/south-african-man-marries-four-women-at-once/#comment-2448 chucky Sun, 10 Jan 2010 16:36:54 +0000 http://tackyweddings.com/?p=1307#comment-2448 Its shame a nation like ours has lost its morality that made it what it is . but its slowing fading as the political correctness takes over and the soul of a nation is lost . Its shame a nation like ours has lost its morality that made it what it is . but its slowing fading as the political correctness takes over and the soul of a nation is lost .

]]> By: Hannah http://tackyweddings.com/2009/10/15/south-african-man-marries-four-women-at-once/#comment-2330 Hannah Wed, 16 Dec 2009 23:43:21 +0000 http://tackyweddings.com/?p=1307#comment-2330 thanks! great new stuff :) hope the family etc is going to be ok now *big hug* thanks! great new stuff :)
hope the family etc is going to be ok now
*big hug*

]]> By: Heather http://tackyweddings.com/2009/10/15/south-african-man-marries-four-women-at-once/#comment-2326 Heather Wed, 16 Dec 2009 18:08:18 +0000 http://tackyweddings.com/?p=1307#comment-2326 I've got to agree with maolijiang. If you read the article that was linked to, it does not seem like a bad situation. They are Zulu and having more than one wife is a traditional part of their culture. It's not quite the same as someone in say, England, having four wives, where bigamy is illegal. He is a businessman and has provided well for his wives and children. I think this is a better arrangement than a man having one wife and other women on the side. I’ve got to agree with maolijiang. If you read the article that was linked to, it does not seem like a bad situation.
They are Zulu and having more than one wife is a traditional part of their culture. It’s not quite the same as someone in say, England, having four wives, where bigamy is illegal.
He is a businessman and has provided well for his wives and children. I think this is a better arrangement than a man having one wife and other women on the side.

]]> By: hmillic http://tackyweddings.com/2009/10/15/south-african-man-marries-four-women-at-once/#comment-2318 hmillic Wed, 16 Dec 2009 02:10:54 +0000 http://tackyweddings.com/?p=1307#comment-2318 Sorry! Will post more frequently, I know how addicting all of this is ;) Thanks for reading. Sorry! Will post more frequently, I know how addicting all of this is ;) Thanks for reading.

]]> By: maolijiang http://tackyweddings.com/2009/10/15/south-african-man-marries-four-women-at-once/#comment-2303 maolijiang Thu, 10 Dec 2009 11:54:17 +0000 http://tackyweddings.com/?p=1307#comment-2303 Why judge these people from the perspective of a different culture? The sheer lack of respect for other cultures has cause more problems in the world. In this case the man is being honest about wanting more than one woman and is not hidding the fact. In africa you call them 1st, 2nd and 3rd wife...and it is acceptable and keeps balance in society. In the west...people hide and sneek around...with 2nd or 3rd wives usually referred to a Mistresses....Whats the name of that French President...? Remember him? Its his culture...live with it Why judge these people from the perspective of a different culture? The sheer lack of respect for other cultures has cause more problems in the world. In this case the man is being honest about wanting more than one woman and is not hidding the fact. In africa you call them 1st, 2nd and 3rd wife…and it is acceptable and keeps balance in society. In the west…people hide and sneek around…with 2nd or 3rd wives usually referred to a Mistresses….Whats the name of that French President…? Remember him? Its his culture…live with it

]]> By: Hannah http://tackyweddings.com/2009/10/15/south-african-man-marries-four-women-at-once/#comment-2294 Hannah Wed, 09 Dec 2009 00:31:01 +0000 http://tackyweddings.com/?p=1307#comment-2294 wow is this site ever updated? I made the mistake of reading everything on the day i discovered it and i`ve been waiting for more ever since...please please please show us more trash :) wow is this site ever updated?
I made the mistake of reading everything on the day i discovered it and i`ve been waiting for more ever since…please please please show us more trash :)

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